Been awhile since I been on here but was thinking about the site and thought I should update.
I haven't talked to my WaW wife in a couple of months now. Not since I served her with the divorce papers Prior to that she had been contacting me frequently wanting to get back together. To which each time I turned her down. I was honestly appalled by her suggesting that especially when she was talking to me about wanting to get back together she was still with the guy she left me for but claiming "they want different things" my reply was simple. Break up with him and find someone that wants the same things as you. My thought process is simple on it. She's with someone while she's talking to me about getting back together. That to me doesn't reflect any kind of change or growth and will inevitably lead back to the same path. Aside from that I am actually dating a woman for a few months now and things are going really well. She's the complete opposite of me. Which made me nervous at first but I'm finding that the more different we are the more new things we have to introduce to the other whether it be how you approach a problem,music,art...etc. I've been digging into playing music a lot now as well. I've actually laid down a few tracks with a buddy of mine not too long ago.
When I first came to these forums I was in a really bad way but due to talking to a lot of you and of course following the advice in the book my life is really getting back onto track. There are some rough days still where I will start wondering if my new girlfriend will treat me the same way as my WaW and I end up having to take a step back and remind myself that this isn't her.
For all the help you all have given me I cannot express how thankful I am that this forum exists.
Prior to that she had been contacting me frequently wanting to get back together. To which each time I turned her down. I was honestly appalled by her suggesting that especially when she was talking to me about wanting to get back together she was still with the guy she left me for but claiming "they want different things" my reply was simple. Break up with him and find someone that wants the same things as you. My thought process is simple on it. She's with someone while she's talking to me about getting back together. That to me doesn't reflect any kind of change or growth and will inevitably lead back to the same path. Aside from that I am actually dating a woman for a few months now and things are going really well. She's the complete opposite of me. Which made me nervous at first but I'm finding that the more different we are the more new things we have to introduce to the other whether it be how you approach a problem,music,art...etc. I've been digging into playing music a lot now as well. I've actually laid down a few tracks with a buddy of mine not too long ago. 