One nice thing is we are stepping out of this marriage the way we came into it: we are doing it together. It is very nice. I have a new-found respect for W just because of the way this is happening . . .
Let me be the first to say, "Blcccch."
I know you were hardly blameless here, OnMyWay, but there's nothing to respect about the way your wife handled what looks like to be the end of your marriage. Not from my seat and view, anyway.