Need Advice -- Nearing the breaking point... AGAIN

[jlove]

I agree with Rick, if she's with OM, do you want to share her? You cannot reconcile with OM in picture. With my sitch, that is non-negotiable. W knows she made a mistake and I forgive her, she also knows that if she wants to live in this house and be a family, I will tolerate any contact with OM. Now I have to trust her too and that is an ongoing thing with me, but I believe she's doing her best.

We are both working on R now and I think it'll work out, but I think if I found out again about OM or lies about it, I would leave her and move on. God, family and myself know I've tried, but that I truly think would be my breaking point. I will not do this again with her or any woman. I made that promise to myself.