DBer I think you have not followed DB at all. You are sharing your W with OM? It doesn't look like you set any boundaries. Yes set boundaries and move on. If you don't have kids I would go dark and ask her to not contact unless there is an emergency.

Are youGALing? If not it is highly recommended. Don't sit there waiting and watching life go by. It does you no good. Thinking of you my friend


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden