Just to be clear here, re: Sandi2 and her list.

She did not successfully reconcile using DB methods. She was the one walking away and then later got back with her husband. Her advice is from the other side, which is why it is so helpful.


Me 42/ W 40 /S 16
Married 15
Bomb dropped 11/18/2009
Nuke dropped 12/7/2009
EA/likely PA confirmed and busted 2/28/2010
Still separated in the same house and cant wait for this to end 5/8/2012