Needing some guidance... 2

[jks]

I actually had a really good day today. I cleaned a lot which made me feel good about myself and I focused on my kids.

I met with one of my client's tonight to go over her pictures for her wedding and she told me... I'm so happy we went with you. You really do such great work. That made my night. It makes me feel good to know that I do have a talent that I am good at and I do technically have a job, whether H believes that or not.

I spoke with the woman that sent me the message on FB about OW and she said she knows this will not last between the two of them. She said, it may take a couple years but it won't last. Her H is really good friends with OW and my H. She said that OW seemed like she was always trying to get closer with her H. They texted all the time. She would look at her H's phone and ask him why he had to text with her so much. Funny thing is, once I found out about the text messaging between her and my H, it was too late for me.

She was certain that OW wanted to hook up with her H but because she gave OW the cold shoulder all the time and made it clear that she wasn't welcome, OW backed off. So she then moved on to my H. I'm still so sick about this.

I am trying to get myself together. I know over the past couple days I have been totally irate and it isn't helping my sitch. I really would like to know what I should say when H is doing these inappropriate things around our kids. What would be a reasonable boundary to set with him regarding OW and my kids?