Yeah, he might actually like the fighting - weird, huh?
But mostly, he's spinning because he's bumping up against the reality of divorce - something none of them really think about when they embark on their affairs. And he's probably feeling ambivalent (because, truthfully, the guys who are truly happy with their OW and optimistic about their future with her, do NOT tend to stir up these kinds of fights.)
Keep it in the attorney's office. Refuse to get sucked in out of the office. And yes, you need to figure out what you're going to do with your life, and continui9ng to live under the same roof is probably not a plan. Still, talk to your attorney before making any decisions.
