Ben, it sounds like you are on a mission. My only caution would be if you have any concerns about not being able to say exactly what you want or need to say and be able to enforce the boundaries you will be establishing, then it may be best to hold off until another time when you are better prepared.
Wishing you the best for tomorrow!
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife