Sometimes ya just gotta go with what you feel...rules or no. Sometimes you have to tell them for YOUR sake, not theirs.
That she was crying by the end, rather than spewing, IS interesting...but I wouldn't speculate on things too much.
I read in HB's postings about how God is guiding...maybe it was the right thing, regardless of the outcome or rules. Maybe she needed to hear that, where it goes, who knows...
So just grab yer guitar and play, just like yesterday...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm