gosh, i just finished reading that. i had no idea it existed - thought KD was joking.
as jbnati said, it is hellishly funny when you start reading it, but as i got further, i started feeling sadder.
i couldn't help thinking that along with the 37 rules, this should be added on for newcomers.
it's a scarily apt description of what one could expect, and i wouldn't have minded reading this months ago - then each time h would enact one of the above, i could have known better maybe how this was not about me
our self esteem takes such a devastating hit, that i think i see now, that my "recovery" to a better place of detachment and letting go, is more about rebuilding how i feel about myself than about the broken down relationship
thanks for posting this zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
