Okay, I finally found you guys hiding over here in plain sight.

Originally Posted By: Underdog
I can't believe that it all makes me angry as hell again! And the worst part is I can't completely figure out why. Am I mad for her? Am I that unevolved that I can't accept this? Am I more pissed that I made most of the sacrifices?


Trust issues, dating... you can get a game plan to address each of those things. But how about figuring out what's under the anger? What are the associated thoughts? What are the feelings that precede those thoughts? And what needs of yours do they indicate are not being met?

I'd like to be done with the self work, too, but whenever I think I am it turns out I'm really wrong about that.

Enough of that. Back to the dating. Ellie's right - you could have a 35 year old if you wanted. You can have whatever you want. You're hot stuff, Bets! Yeah, even in sweats...