You're not stupid, it's just that most of us don't learn this stuff as kids so it's like learning a new language.
Right now the 2 of you bring out the worst in each other. How can you build a new relationship in the midst of that. You need to get away from each other and start to heal, see if you miss the other person or do you just miss the drama.
This takes a lot of patience, don't expect results in a week or 2 or even a month or 2.
Are you up for that?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
