What does it mean to me? It is nothing.....except a passing curiosity that I file away in my mental attic, just like all the other observations I make about other people and their psychological idiosyncracies.
You and I have both been at this long enough to know that MLCers say and do all sorts of crazy stuff...this was just one of those times.
No, she has said absolutely nothing to me, which is par for the course...nothing new there. Which is why it struck me so oddly.
After all, if an old flame that you hadn't had contact with for years just showed up one day out of nowhere and, without saying a word, just started cleaning your pool, wouldn't you be the slightest bit curious as to what was going through their head?
I just made a speculation about the why of it all, based on the focus of her interactions with me in the past.
Distraction of my life? Hmmmmmmm........
Yeah, I suppose you could consider it a distraction.......in the same way that one might be distracted by why someone chooses one word over another in a conversation, or why one person's button gets pushed about a particular topic, while the same topic has no effect on someone else.
You observe it...then consider it....maybe speculate about it a bit....
...and then you file it away, and move forward with other things.
Are you seeing something more significant in her actions?
PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS. -Ralph Waldo Emerson
DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE. -Jimbo
