Stuck in Holding Pattern 2

[ben11]

Got back from a golf-trip with some friends. Had a really great time. But now, it's back into real-life mode. I've thought a lot about Busto's last post, and talked with my friends who know both W and me very well. It's time to "move on".

W and I are meeting tomorrow evening for coffee. I'm not sure on what I'll say, or how I'll say it, but it's time to get out of limbo. We either need to be actively working on our M, or actively working on dismantling it.

I'm going to ask her where she's at, and try get to the bottom of the direction she wants to take. If it's anything besides wanting to move towards R, it's time to end things. This basically includes her getting all her possessions out of my place and deciding on what to do with the rest.

This is going to be hard...