Of course she got mad, people get mad when they don't get there way.

Have you thought about going dark until she can remain calm and talk, not yell.

That will also give you an opportunity to practice walking away and not engaging.

You can do it.

A separation agreement may be a good thing.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss