Yeah, apparently everything is my fault too! She's got to the stage over the last few months of changing everything else in her life, she wants a new job, new house, re-decorate the whole house, moving furniture around, getting new furniture, wanting to lose weight (while eating loads!), etc etc, all stuff that is not normal behaviour for her. What really throws me at times is she has a right go at me one minute and then doing things like making me coffee the next (which she never did when we were alright!) and then there's the laughing, angry and crying and then back to laughing again in literally 5 mins. What's good I guess is our R is starting to feel like it did before the whole Nick situation, which is a positive I think, and over the last week she has asked me twice how I am, which I think is the first time in about 6 months. And after our big 'upset' Saturday night when I pushed it a little the next day she cooked my favourite tea.
I really wish I could hold a mirror upto her and give her a clear mind for a while so she could see how she behaves at times.
Oh well, back to playing it cool but being available and ready to help where possible.
