Ok...so.... I was supposed to meet with my FIL Saturday, but that didn't happen because he texted me Saturday morning to let me know he had just gotten out of the ER so he couldn't meet me. I have tried several times to call him and he hasn't answered....

I think I am just going to tell H tonight and whatever he wants to do or not do then it's up to him and out of my hands. I just feel like if I wait to talk to FIL it could be too late, I don't want to run the risk of something happening to him and H not even knowing......

I figure no matter what I say to H, or how I present the information, in H's eyes it will be wrong, and I will still be the horrible projection he is so angry at, so I'm just gonna suck it up and do it. He will be home in about an hour, if he comes directly home, which he mostly does, but you never know. Wish me luck! smile