Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[imthemom]

The court date went as well as could be expected I guess...
We got a temp support order in place that I think was very fair, both of us compromised but he of course was not happy. For all you legal people out there we went with the Ostler/Smith agreement on his overtime...which I personally think screws him in the long run but it was fair..and thats all I was trying to be. Its temporary so we will see if it works out.
It was one of the most difficult days Ive had, sitting in that hall way (which btw, i have been in quite a few times with my older sons father...a whole other story) with a person I had every intention of spending the rest of my life with 18 yrs ago was painfull to say the least. He was defensive and border line rude...sitting there for 4 hrs with no eye contact or any kind of acknowledgement other then the hello I forced out of him when he first got there. I was determined to be friendly if it killed me...
so that part is over..its been a hard couple of weeks, our anniversary, the court date and then his bday was the next day...
Im tired and sad and really just ready to move on...