He seems to be getting defensive, and I call him on it. He says he’s not defensive, and that he didn’t tell her he was coming. I said well being that it’s Mother’s... Day (she has 4 kids), and your birthday weekend, surely she would want to see you. He looks at me and says it’s my sister’s weekend and that’s more important. I say well I know you’ve talked to her (I don’t, but I’m guessing). He says yes he’s talked to her, but didn’t tell her anything about the weekend. What he doesn’t know is that in one of my earlier snooping periods, I found an email from her talking about canceling his “surprise” birthday party scheduled for that weekend. Guess they had had an argument that day. *shrug*
It’s just strange. Our conversations about his A before were…different. He would answer whatever questions I had with what seemed like quiet defiance, now that I think about it. Like he wanted me to go off or something. Now, if I even mention her, he jumps down my throat. And not in any way that seems like he’s defending her either.
At least I confirmed that they still talk, which I was guessing still happened. Although, he didn’t talk to her all day Saturday because we were together, and unless he called her while I was out running errands yesterday (entirely possible) he didn’t talked to her then either. They have probably texted, but I’ve also noticed he hasn’t been on his phone as much recently. Before, I would have to pry it out of his cold dead hands before he put it down. Also, I’m still pretty sure he hasn’t seen her since February. This is partially based on him (if he was being honest) and the fact that he only went out of town once since Vegas.
I don’t know what to think. If I was willing to cheat on my wife, and I supposedly “loved” this person, h#ll freezing over wouldn’t keep me from seeing her. I’m thinking something else is going on. *side eye* If I find out that there is something going down this weekend, I’m going to break my foot off in H's butt and he’s going to have wish he had no knees instead of one hurt one by the time I finish.
