Saturday: I spent the day with H as my shadow. He helped me clean out my car (he volunteered); he drove me around all day while my car was in the shop (also volunteered for this), and basically acted like the H I married. It was a day like we used to have; where we'd just ride around town, shop some, and laugh a lot. He finally found his wedding ring under the seat in his car this morning, and has had it on since. Have to keep reminding myself that nothing has changed and to keep my expectations at next to nothing.
Sunday: Went to see The Avengers. Great movie btw. I saw a glimpse of H that I don't get to see often enough, but want to.
We get to the theater and I can't find my phone. Go back and look in the car - no phone. (Mini freak- out starts) So I ask him to call Verizon and suspend my service until I can get home and look for it. Long story short - I go get movie snacks while he deals with Verizon. When I get back to my seat, he says he talked to Verizon and everything is good. I tell him thank you for taking care of it. Then I say that I wasn't planning on buying a new phone yet. He says not to worry, he's worked out a plan, and if I have to get a new phone then we'll just use the other phone line we have. I saluted him and said okay. (He said it like I'm in the driver's seat now lady. Sit back and enjoy the ride.)
Now, my H is not what you would call a decision maker. He pretty much just lets life happen. For him to take charge like that, even over something small, surprised me. It doesn't happen often and he hasn't done it at all post-bomb. It made me think about him being the strong H type in his next R, and then I got mad & sad all in one swoop.
The movie started and I moved on. (Ladies, Thor & Hawk Eye make the movie worthwhile. LOL) Oh, and I did find my phone at home.
