Hello, WAW. Is anyone there?

[ces67]

Hey AT, I completely understand wanting to push and IMO, the key statement you made above was "I can't reason our marriage back into being". Getting your W back won't be the result of an argument won (and you know this)

maybe its time to go back to "a beginners" view and allow some space (but don't announce it, just do it). The reasoning isn't getting you the results you want so what's your next 180? If I recall, you were making good progress just doing some acts of service like cooking dinner and things like that. Can you go back to that?

Every sitch is different regardless of the common themes because each of us are unique. You saw on my thread that I've pushed some conversations with m W lately. For me, that was a 180 because my tendancy has been to withdraw and hide my feelings. Is the logic & debate a 180 for you or your natural state?

Good luck with counseling today.