Seriously?? This kind of stuff should be illegal, right? It is absolutely insane the kind of torment and pain it causes a family. I feel for you because your kids are older and understand it even more than mine do. I wish I had answers for you and words of encouragement but I am just as lost as you. I will never understand this type of behavior. Lust seems to over rule all. It's sickening!
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.