ces - it sounds like your W is really trying even if she still has to convince herself on some things! It is still so soon after your big conversation that things are probably, as you indicated, still a little raw. Give it a little time to heal over with your positive changes. From what you report you are doing a great job being open and positive - keep it up! Remember that the summer vacation is still more than a month away, you have plenty of time to keep working on your positive changes before then.