Needing some guidance... 2

[jks]

I went out of town for the weekend and while I was there H called me. Totally caught me off guard and I answered. He immediately said, can I talk to the kids? I hung up. Really? Did I not already set a boundary for this? And he is totally disrespecting me now.

I called him back and he kept saying, let me talk to the kids and I said... I set a boundary and expect that you follow it. I am not going to let you talk to them. Please stop doing this. I hung up and sent him some other not so nice texts. Basically just telling him that he cannot have everything whenever he wants.

If he's missing his kids then how is that my problem? I went out of town to try to get away from all the madness and to try to move on with my life. When he does things like this it makes me feel like he's trying to remind me that he's still here. Can he not understand that I need space?

Honestly, what would you be doing if you felt like your H was putting your kids in such inappropriate situations so soon? I don't know how to be nice about this. The more I just allow it, the worse he gets.

I dread letting my kids go with him now.