I just wanted to chime in here because we all have our own choices on how we want to handle an OP.
Personally, I stand firmly in the middle and say:
"I will make my choices and cannot control that of another, including whether my S will take up with an OP. All I ask for is respect. Choose what you want to choose, but respect me (and respect everyone) enough to not hide it if there IS an OP."
