getting together at his Mom's house and he works, but he wants me to go ahead and go with the kids. I think I will, although I feel wierd about it. I get along great with his family, I just feel strange going by myself and they all know our situation. He wants me to do it though, and I want to try and show I can be independant,

Is this how YOU want to spend Mother's Day?

I'm not sure that doing what he wants you to do shows your independence.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss