I know the DB site is about saving marriages. I genuinely DO NOT believe in divorce and want to make my marriage work. I still believe that if BOTH of us were willing we could get past the A (and the other issues in our relationship) and create a marriage where we feel happy, love and respected.
H though has made is abundantly clear he is not interested. In his mind, in many ways I am now the OW in the relationship.
Feeling though my situation is hopeless and would be kinder to myself to accept things are over now.
