Separation Helped So Far..

[anyhope]

Well I had the most interesting night last night. My friend called and invited me to his place as he was having a get together with a few people. I didn't feel like going but felt bored and somewhat down so I decided that I should go after all and socialize. I called to let him know but there was no answer and I figured they cant hear the phone so I'll just show up. Now this is the friend that H takes ow to sometimes and sometimes when he calls me and invites me over I feel like he asks if I'm sure about not going and if I am then H can bring ow (I know, messed up friendship, but whatever)
Well last night as I was going there I had this weird feeling that she'll be there. I parked my car at the usual parking lot and didn't see H's car there but saw it shortly around the corner, so he was there for sure and still had that gut feeling. I go up and knock on the door, it was noisy inside as usual when he has people over and they didnt hear me knock, I knocked for a while before deciding to see if the door was left unlocked. It was so I walked right in quickly screening the room to search for her but didnt see her.. Didnt mean she wasn't there.
My friend came up to me right away and started telling me that he thought I wasnt coming and she was also there. By the time he said that I saw her stand and exit to the balcony. Lol. Thank God I had a feeling about this, I was 'prepared' very calm, and when he suggested I should go so he can introduce us I agreed. (wish I could of seen h's face at this point tho we passed by him I forgot to glance over.
Ow sat in the corner and I smiled and waved at her. She was hesitant but stood to shake my hand. Seeing all those pic of her on fb I felt like I already knew her. I was very nice and even kissed her on the cheeks (traditional for us.. not for her but I wanted to make a lasting impression and I think kissing her was the icing on the cake) Following that I greeted the girls sitting around and while taking my jacket off I could hear H telling the guys 'awkward' and I was thinking must be for you.. And proceeded with the originally planned socializing.
They, especially her seemed a bit uncomfortable and about an hour later they decided to leave (which is funny because h is usually the last one to leave any party)
Today he came over to pick up some paperwork he needed and I said nothing. He said what an idiot out friend was to invite both of us at the same time. He tried to suggest that our friend wanted ow to come over and they were not together. I said yeah whatever. And he said fine, believe what you want.
My friend also called just now congratulating me for having such composure and handling the situation so well. I told him I had a feeling this would happen and I was prepared. Also told him that H was blaming him for inviting ow and putting him in that situation. He basically said that was bs, so so much for the 'I no longer talk to her' and all that bs he says sometimes. I'm actually happy I was able to catch him lying.
And I must add that ow was wearing plastic heart shaped sunglasses on her head which I find really funny. People over the age of 6 should not be seen with one of those.