Need HOPE- part II

[PERSEVERANCE]

So... Just hoping for some feedback--I'm not sure what to think about this; My W told me that her T. suggested that we not see each other so often ie have dinner together, stop going on walks or to the gym together, stop calling or texting so often & keep the family time with all 4 of us to a minimum? Maybe she was being smothered...I'm going back to DB basics.
In a few months the D will be final. The T. said that we are still "acting like we're married", stop "playing house"....fyi- my W moved out in Jan.and we are not intimate...but we are still very close and friendly. My W isn't ready to come home yet. Perhaps she needs to know that my positive changes are lasting and not temp. The T. also said that if there is any chance of reconcilliation, we will need more distance...distance to make my W miss me and perhaps notice the positive changes more easily when she DOES see me --- kinda like you don't notice your own children growing so quickly, but the relative that sees them a few times a year really sees the difference. Any feed back? Sorry if this is rambling