So far today, he called after he got off work and came by for an hour or so to see the kids before we went out to go do some shopping we had planned. He didn't go with us, he went home to nap. We left it at maybe he would call later and he would go to a movie with us that the kids want to go see. So, we are back home and may have that happening in a few hours. Trying not to count on it, he is kind of moody with what he is the mood for.
I've been doing good about keeping busy. It seems like we get along good when we are around each other right now. Not like everything is great, but it is more relaxed, and I can tell he is not stressed all the time about me. I am trying to keep standing back and not pushing for confirmations on getting together, trying to arrange things too much. I know if I start that it will be pressure and go downhill.
We are probably at the best place we have been in at least a month, maybe since this all started even. It is still not even close to reconciliation, more like a friendly truce, but I'm glad to see progress and I am hoping to continue the DB and the progress will get even better. I do feel like I am on eggshells a bit when he is around, always trying to keep it friendly, not push too much, not be around all the time, it is a little exhausting. Like trying to tame or not spook a wild animal.
M 36 H 36 D9,S6, Expecting D in August 2012 M 13 T 18 Told me he wanted to separate 12/31/2011 Moved Out 2/2/2012 Didn't want to work on things, wanted divorce 4/20/2012
