I wish that book wasn't so hard to find. I'd really like to read it today, but it looks like I'll have to order it. In the meantime, I've been doing a lot of reading on masculine and feminine energy and, boy, has a lightbulb gone on. More on that as I digest what I am reading. I'll say this in the meantime, I've had to suppress a lot of my female qualities because my H wasn't/isn't a confident man. Our relationship only perpetuated that as I had to take on more of his role and suppress my own.