Not sure where to start, Part 2

[wishing, hoping]

I am sooooooo angry. I confronted him and told him I thought this was inappropriate and unacceptable. He basically told me oh well. He said S is old enough to accept that mom and dad are getting D and that there is someone else. I asked him how he would feel if the tables were turned and he said he would understand the emotions I am feeling. He basically told me he didn't need to ask my permission and I said yes but you need to discuss things with me. I told him he should have talked to me about it last night but he didnt. He was trying to stop the conversation so he could leave but I wouldn't let him. I asked him if it was his intention for this woman to replace me and he said Of course not. I also asked if it was his intention to take S up there every weekend and be said no. I also asked H if he intended to go up there every weekend and again he said no.

I am at such a low point right now. Is H really in such la la land that he can't see what he is doing or is he trying to get back at me for all the resentments he holds inside. What did I ever do to deserve this??

I feel like going dark or giving up.