Not sure where to start, Part 2

[BklynMom]

Just take it one minute at time. Thank God you have 2 healthy and beautiful children.

Not to issue an ultimatium but I think if H takes S up there, your H should move out. I am not saying this to be a threat but its just not appriopriate. You cant stop your H but he should no longer pretend to part of the home & family where you live.

Do you have a friend or family you trust that you can call to help you today? You should not be alone today. You need to not be reactive but thoughtful.

Hang in there. You can do it for your kids. keep posting:)