As my posts are still not appearing I am starting to lose track slightly of what I've already said. I do not, however, think my H's affair was an 'exit affair' I think it is more of a 'my marriage made me do it' type affair. Does anyone have any experience or thoughts on how to deal with this?

Since my H sent me his terse reply 6 days ago I haven't responded and am planning on going NC. I really am no longer in his thoughts though so have doubts he will actually notice and/or experience the loss of losing me...