Hi Maggie,

I've read the 5 Love Languages and have been recommended Love Must Be Tough. The other ones I haven't head of but will look. Other books I've read are Love Life for Every Married Couple, How One of You Can Bring Two of You Together, How to Save Your Marriage Alone, Hope for the Separated and Before a Bad Good-Bye.

If my other posts ever show up though, you'll see that I'm really going to have to change my reading list to things like: How to Move Past Your Breakup, Healing and Moving on.

It is clear my H has no interest in our marriage and now sees me as the OW in the relationship. This is not a short-lived affair but something that has developed into a meaningful and likely long-lasting relationship.