It was after the affairs. The first one lasted only like 1 week and it was just texting. I'm not really too sure about this last one because he's not even willing to try to reconcile. I still think he is with this OW...not even sure because we don't talk.
A huge part of me thinks that I can get over this and really forgive because I know the man he can be when he's happy about life and I know the woman I can be when I'm loving every minute of life and looking positively towards my future.
As of now, I still want my H home working on things with me, but in the mean time I'm 'moving on' with my life without him.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July