Hi Twl- figured I'd post you the list of books I've been or seen recommended on this board (in addition to Michelle's books) so you can start reading while on moderation. They are in no particular order- I just keep a document with a list I add to.

Men are from Mars women are from Venus
The 5 love languages
Love must be tough
Passion trap
How to fix your marriage without talking about it
Passionate marriage
The solo partner
Facing love addiction
This is not the story you think it is

Me-32
H-31
M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs
No kids, 3 pets
H estranged father passes away- 8/11
Bomb- 1/15/12
Began LRT- 4/1/12