So I have been thinking...I've been dark with no contact with my H for 3 1/2 weeks. The last time we talked, it was a pretty good argument in person, then screaming over the phone, and then ended with texting that we should wait a couple weeks and discuss things further as to let things cool down.
As stated before, my H has moved into his own apartment (has not told me personally, told a friend), still has belongings here...bedroom furniture, tv stand, and military memorabilia, and has not filed for D even though he is the one who states he wants it.
My only question now is...does he think I'm not contacting him because I was so mad on the phone and am holding a grudge? That is one of his complaints about me...that he doesn't want to work on things with me because he 'knows' I will not be able to get over things.
I have trust issues with him from an EA he had over a year ago, which was hard to get over, but then he just made it worse by having an EA/PA starting this January, so he really thinks that I will never be able to get over this one.
Part of my fear is that he now just thinks I'm mad. I guess, though, if he thinks that I'm mad and still wanted to contact me, he would. But he hasn't. So, I guess I have my answer...that he still does not want anything to do with me at this point. Right??
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
