Yes, I'm trying to see it as a MLC or depression. While I don't like either of those, I can realize that he really doesn't have much control right now and I need to give him space to find out what he wants and make his own mistakes. I can only hope that the mistakes aren't too big, but I can't stop them, so I need to stop overthinking the sitch or trying to change anything. He did love you at one time, and now he's just confused and probably trying not to lead you on at all while he figures out what's going on. It's very tough, and I'm tempted to relive every moment of the past to see what went wrong, but that's just a waste of my time.

Take care of yourself and just be patient to see what unfolds. I need to take that advice myself, so I know how difficult it is.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13