I feel like this too sometimes - it must be 'normal' under our circumstances.
But really, it's much more likely that our H's don't love themselves at the moment. It comes out as shunning us, but that's because they're having such a struggle within themselves.
And, we know they are not rational.
Don't let yourself believe that how he feels now is how he's going to be forever. You know that's not likely.
