It sounds like you are doing great! Keep up the great work!
I'm sure you've mentioned this before, but how did you get your wife to go to Retrouvaille? I'm just curious...
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July