Crimson - What GM is saying is what I've been trying to get you to understand for awhile now. When are you going to get up the courage and "talk" to your W?
When she snapped at you the other day for asking if she was including you in her plans to go to Sedona, you stated that you weren't trying to pressure her when you asked the question. But, it didn't sound like you took the conversation any further and you let her end the conversation which left you hurt and confused. Perhaps what you should also have said was that you did not deserve to be snapped at.
When are you going to speak your truth to your W?
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