Without a doubt...money is the only language they appear to hear while in crisis. The sound of money passing hands nearly drives them insane and they do not want to be fair. They'd rather have us standing on the corner w/a tin cup versus providing for the children and spouses according to the judicial system. They do not think about the consequences of their actions until the purse strings are pulled.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.