Like Advina, I would have given anything to know how much my wife was thinking about leaving. Instead, she was telling me she was upset but wasn't going to leave me... I thought we had time to work some stuff out.
With the language you're using, I wouldn't be surprised if you've already read 5 Love Languages. I think your H needs to read it. I strongly recommend you read Divorce Remedy as soon as possible. I strongly second that you read "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It" as 2tp suggests.
I think it will shed some light on the ways you both are reinforcing a cycle that pushes you further apart. I'm willing to bet your husband has some pretty strong resentment that he will sit next to you and ignore you that way.
Perhaps when he sees you with a book titled "The Divorce Remedy" in your hands, he'll pay attention.
- All for the kids - Me:34, W:35 M:7, T:13 S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage July 2011 "I think I need a separation" W filed D September Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room
