Have added a few more posts last night but they are still not up. How long does it usually take for moderated posts to be added?
Looks like right this minute your profile says 9 posts but only 6 have shown up. I would say somewhere between 10-25 posts you will get off moderation. Sorry but I have no control over that. That is why I have suggested to post in small frequesnt posts.
Have you been to your solicitor at all yet?
I would certainly suggest you speak to him at least once, but that does not get you divorced or separated just because you talk.
Also what is the reason that you want to proceed?
If you think that by filing for divorce he will be shocked out of his infidelity I would say that is unlikely.
I think the advice that you get here will be quite different than the other board. Over there it sounds like if you want to be divorced that is what you will get.
Here we are trying to save marriages and make you better for your next relationship.
