This part of the crisis just blows my mind. My ex did not even consider the money he would have to pay me when he started talking divorce. He was and still is so upset by this. My ex just wanted me to go away, disappear so he could live his fantasy life. My ex also threatened to quit his job as well as kill himself. He did neither. They just love the drama. No matter what, you have to continue to protect yourself financially because they will lie, cheat and hide money during their life in the pigpen.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
