Hahahaha snicker snort at: "He thanked me for making sure he didn't get any sleep." Oh! Boo Hoo! Imagine the nights you have lain awake, wondering about your future, saddened by his betrayal with a friend, no less. The cost of hiring a lawyer that will fight tooth and nail, will probably be more than just paying the alimony you request. You are being pretty kind, and he just doesn't know it. The lawyer will set him straight, I hope. You do get those that will bill as many hours as possible.
Gasp! Kill himself? He doesn't sound like the type. Not work? He will have nothing then too, and as you say ... poof, there goes the monster OW. He'd be doing you a favor, in a way.
You are strong, Ms Wendy. You go!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim