Is the cake eating 6

[BklynMom]

Do not negoitate directly with H, that is your L job. Your L can tell you what the protocol is and you should keep what the law says you should keep. Its not something that he should negiotate with you.

My father/lawyer says woman always get the short end when they handle the agreement themselves. He also thinks 4 ways meetings are a way for the H & lawyer to bully the woman.

Hang in there