Do I just give in?

[Hurt84]

Well, tonight the quiet starts at home. As I type my W is in the process of moving out and will be gone by the time I get home. I was home last night while she was getting some things together but from what I could gather she doesn't plan on taking much, just enough to get by it seems. She asked me once or twice if I minded if I took this or that. I so wanted to say that I didn't want any of it to go, including her, but I held that back and just said if she thought she needed it then take it.

For the most part I played it pretty cool. I made it a point to come home later than normal, anticipating that she was going to be doing some sort of packing. When I was home, I stayed out of the way. The only time I did anything was when she was moving a TV to get the stand - I don't want that puppy getting damaged. I'm not helping her move which I'm actually a little proud of myself about (that sounds so mean).

Accuray mentioned a few posts back in response to something I said that perhaps our little interactions if she comes for laundry, to see the dog or whatever could be positive if I want to be around for them. I'm curious to see myself. She's made it a point to me to say that she doesn't want a divorce, she just wants to get out to clear her head. She's also approaching this as its going to be temporary for now, on some level at least. I still question what her real motive is since I don't know what the deal is with OM but in all actuality at this point it doesn't matter. As I mentioned in earlier posts, we are actually still going on vacation together (with friends) in a couple weeks so that should be a good temperature check on things.

DB and DR came in the mail the other day and I'm close to halfway done with DB. I'm not too worried about finding things to do during the week after work simply because there aren't that many hours to fill. Now that the weather is turning to spring (or fast-forwarding to summer depending on the day) it will also be easier to keep busy on the weekends as well. We'll see how GAL goes simply because I did everything based on her and us so this all so new to me.