Wendy,
He's crying the poor me song and what did he expect? You roll over and take whatever he so pleases to give you? I don't think so. I think he's in for a very rude awakening when he seeks the advice of an attorney. Find your ear plugs because you are going to need them. Do not discuss anything more about the property settlement w/him for now...let that old boy stew a bit.

How is the quilt coming along?


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.